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Furnished House, Christmas and Giraffes December 19, 2009

Filed under: First House — nsdeems @ 10:40 pm

So much has happened since my last post, which is partly why there hasn’t been much blogging going on lately.  We have been super busy packing, unpacking, clearing out clutter and putting the pieces back together in the Blue House.  Which by the way, every morning when we leave Andi looks through the windshield at the house and says, “Bye Blue House.  See you later!”  Say it with me…awwwwww!  Anyway, we are even decorated for Christmas and are very holly jolly which is why there has been little time for blogging.  But I have been thinking about it and realize that updates are important to the loved ones in my lives who are so dedicated to reading about our mostly uninteresting lives - so for those of you interested…here’s what we’ve been up to!   

We officially stayed the first night in our new house on Friday December 4th.  We didn’t have much going on that night and the Blue House consisted of bathroom and kitchen necessities and beds.  Thankfully my mom and Tommy were here as well and we began making trips of our belongings that night and on into the next day.  By the end of Saturday we had most of our things scattered about, all major furniture and Direct TV, which was the most important to Justin as conference football games were on.  By Sunday December 6th things were beginning to take shape and I was looking forward to having the entire next week off from work to finishing up moving.  Prior to me taking that time off I carelessly used the word “vacation” to describe the time off I was taking as in, “see you later guys, remember I won’t be here next week because I’m taking vacation” being said ever so light-heartedly to my co-workers.  Let me say this just in case you haven’t already heard me state the fact that my week off from work was NOT a vacation.  There was little to no resting, no afternoon naps with the kiddo still at daycare, no leisurely strolls through stores aimlessly spending time doing nothing but re-centering the soul and spirit.  All things vacation were not seen or heard on my week off.   

I spent the first three days making trips up and down the elevator with our belongings, packing as much stuff into my car as possible.  Then after the car was full except for the driver’s seat and Andi’s car seat, I would go up to the apartment to clean.  Let me just say this, I like things tidy and clean but am not overly obsessed with cleanliness.  My house is typically slightly messy but I try not to let things build up too much.  I typically “clean” on Fridays so that we have the rest of the weekend to do whatever it is that we have to do.  So back to my statement about not being overly obsessed with cleanliness…in the 8 years that we lived in our apartment, I never really thought to dust the baseboard behind furniture or pull out the fridge and sweep and mop.  In the 8 years that we lived in our apartment, 8 years of dust built up in these places and 8 years of dust does not easily wipe off with a quick flick of a cloth.  It must be scrubbed off rather with nasty cleaners that I don’t typically use and that made me have to leave the room several times to catch my breath.  So cleaning our apartment in those places that as “renters” don’t really cross our minds was not so easy and by the end of Wednesday I was exhausted.  I do admit that the process was also slightly emotional.  I was there alone those 3 days and as I emptied and cleaned out our apartment I suddenly had a feeling that I was wiping away the “home” that we had made there after all those years.  I was bleaching away our smell, Lysol-ing away our fingerprints and the crumbs of our last meals and dusting us away from the tiny apartment that so many beginning milestones of our family took place.  After 8 years that apartment has seen the best and worst of us, was the place we lived as a couple and then husband and wife, the place we brought our baby girl home to and watched so many of her “firsts” take place.  It was the place that we became a family in and leaving it behind has been difficult.  I haven’t taken Andi over there since we emptied it out because even though she might still be too young to really remember too many details of what takes place in her life right now, I can’t bear to think that her last memory of her first “home” might possibly be of it empty and without any resemblance of us and our family.  

But back to the Blue House…now that we are settling and are into the holiday spirit I am even more excited and I know that there will be many more memories and “firsts” that we experience in the Blue House.  Here are just a few pics…but not too many because I don’t want to lessen anyone’s need to come see it for themselves!   

Kitchen - after several meals and trips to the grocery store to fill up the fridge!

Living Room - all cozy and finally feeling like home!

Quite a few things have changed even in the short time since these pictures were taken.  For instance, I now having curtains in the living room, which I like very much by the way.  I have also filled the house, mainly the living room, with Christmas decor and we are feeling very Merry in a Santa, snowman, poinsettia and yummy candle sort of way.  We went to Harmon’s tree farm to cut down our Christmas tree which has become a family tradition that we’ve been doing for several years now.  Andi had a great time as usual and became very friendly with all the trees there.  

She said, "Awww you so cute baby tree!" LOL!

And this is our Christmas tree all decorated!  

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So not only are we festive inside but in just one of his “manly-this-is-my-OWN-home” type of projects, Justin hung Christmas lights.  We went to Lowe’s and purchased the new LED lights which are so twinkly and bright and make me want to sing make up for the price (which I did save $3 a box with coupons!).  We intended on going with the classic white lights or “cool white” as it is called in the LED circle but evidently everyone in Lexington, SC does their shopping for Christmas lights in September and not a single strand of ”cool white” icicle lights could be found.  So we went with the multi-color strands and paired them with the white icicle lights we had from last year along with some fancy garland around the door and we are a holly jolly type of family!  Mark my words that next year we will be among the crazy people buying Christmas stuff on 4th of July because I will have those “cool white” lights dangling ever so teasingly from my rooftop next year!  

So right now we are just settling in, getting very comfy and in love with the Blue House.  We are excited to have visitors to show off our new home so if you haven’t already came, then please come and stop by!  We are looking forward to Christmas morning in our new home and a friendly visit from the Big Man in Red who evidently is bringing Andi a giraffe.  I’m not sure where she got the idea from but about 4 or 5 times now she has told me that Santa will be bringing her a giraffe.  When I told her that giraffes were kind of big she said, “Oh.  A baby giraffe.”  

Christmas Spirit in it's finest!

Ho!Ho!Ho!  Much Christmas laughter to come!

 

Blue House Update… November 22, 2009

Filed under: First House — nsdeems @ 11:13 pm

We closed on Friday at 12:30pm.  It was an awesome feeling to know that all that went into getting to that point was really just the beginning for us.  I know that we are so blessed and that our new home will bring us many more blessings. 

So we started painting yesterday and mostly I’m tired and my hands are sore but I wanted to post a few pics for those who are wondering what we’ve been up to for the past two days. 

Master Bedroom - blue paint...haven't finished the trim yet!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Master Bathroom - green paint...yes, I was excited to get to pick out color!!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Andi's room - purple paint and one of the rooms that I finished all the trim! Woo Hoo!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Copper tile backslash that Justin worked so hard on that I LOVE!!!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Our HUGE fridge...I love him too! I think he needs a name just because of his large size! Any suggestions?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

So that’s it for now.  I’m too tired to blog witty banter, I apologize.  We’ll be back in a few days and updates will come! 

 

I LOVE our new home!

 

Our grass is greener…but so was our furniture! November 8, 2009

Filed under: First House — nsdeems @ 11:12 pm

I realized something yesterday.  When you’ve lived in an apartment for almost 8 YEARS, the grass is greener on the other side; but that’s mostly because we don’t have any grass at the apartment!

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But we do now!!!

And we officially have an address…evidenced by the numbers on the side of the house!

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Aren’t they pretty, all shiny and new?

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This was Andi making herself at home in her new room.  She wanted to take her shoes off and put them away in the closet.  She was very pleased with the “softy” carpet in her room and I was pleased with her approval…she’s one picky kid! 

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This was Andi practicing her run across the yard…in her very own green grass.  She was also pleased with the front yard, but I’m sure you can tell that by the look on her face. 

Needless to say, things are getting close and right now we are scheduled to close at 4:00pm November 13th…our fingers are crossed, prayers are being said and faith and hope are running amuck amongst us these days. 

And on a completely different note but still related to the whole house buying and moving topic…we decided a while back that we weren’t going to move our current bedroom furniture.  We would like to get new stuff over the next year and we have so much more closet space that I figured we could get by without it.  Plus it is really big and really heavy and I really didn’t want to move something in that I had plans to move out soon.  So we decided that I would post it on Craigslist and try to sell it.  So this morning I cleared most of our stuff off and wiped it all down and posted three pieces for $80 on Craigslist.  Let me tell you it was like feeding our poor, kind bedroom furniture to the wolves.  Like offering chocolate cake to dieters on a Friday afternoon work party.  I hade 5 offers the first time I checked my email and by the time we called the first people and made plans for them to come look at it, I had three more.  So before I realized it our bedroom was empty and the furniture was being toted out of our little apartment off to a new life.  I admit that I was a bit saddened by the exiting furniture.  Justin and I refinished it about 6 or 7 years ago (we painted it this light green color that when I picked it out was a great idea…now not so much) and since then it has held our clothes and what-nots with extreme care.  It was sad to see a something that has been a part of our family from the beginning leaving so quickly.  But now I have space, more things packed, less to move and $80 on top of all that – so I’ll consider it a successful day!

 

House Buying Makes People Crazy October 30, 2009

Filed under: First House — nsdeems @ 1:40 pm

The Blue House is nearing completion.  I haven’t been out in a few weeks so I have no new pics, mainly because they are keeping it locked and the outside isn’t changing much.  I’m hoping to have a green, grassy yard soon and that will definitely be photo-opp worthy…stay tuned.  Our closing date is set for November 13 which if you know your dates and calendar like I do, then you already realize that it is just TWO WEEKS AWAY!  So, let me just sum up how I’m feeling at this moment in time when our little family is about to make a purchase like we will never make again in buying our FIRST home – I am crazy.  I am stressed over paperwork and phone calls and dates and times of walk-throughs, underswritings and closings.  And it doesn’t help that the women doing our mortgage has about as much brainage as my cat.  For now she will remain nameless but let me tell you once we sign those final signatures on the 13th and that house is ours, I will be sure to let anyone in the area who is buying a home NOT to use this lady.  How sad, right?!  Two small examples of how irritating she has been:  1.  she sent me an email last week and called me Jessica.  I know what you’re thinking.  “Where did she get Jessica from?”  I have no idea.  2.  I have been asking her for weeks now if she needs anything else from me, is there anything that we forgot to turn in to her, etc.  She said “no, we are good to go, don’t worry.”  Last night at 5:00pm I got an email from her with a list of about 7 or 8 things that she needs and needs today.  I have to stop talking about it as my temperature is rising and when I go in to see her today I would hate to leave with her head hidden in my large purse.  I think that might put a damper on our closing! 

So like I said before; I am feeling a bit crazy.  A little stressed that I have yet to pack a single thing – although that should be different by the end of the weekend (fingers crossed).  A little angry at said mortgage lady, but that will pass.  I am extremely blessed to have an incredible real estate agent who has been a life saver in this process.  Without her I don’t know that things would be working themselves out.  I HEART her!  I am also getting excited about the thought of us actually having keys to the Blue House soon and ending the paperwork, phone call, copy and fax marathon.  I am ready to not feel crazy.

 

Blue House August 21, 2009

Filed under: First House — nsdeems @ 9:40 pm

It’s blue…but not just any blue…

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IT’S CAROLINA BLUE BABY!

 

Doors and Windows…Super Fantastic…Yippy! August 14, 2009

Filed under: First House — nsdeems @ 2:14 pm

Here are the newest pics of the house. Justin took them on Thursday 8-13-09…one bonus of the IPhone…he always have a camera on hand but then again he always has Dan Patrick too…oh the trade off!!?? 

I don’t have time this morning for witty dialogue…my apologizes!  Here are the pics….

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Like I said…super fantastic…yippy…you get my drift!

 

Dirt,Rocks, Wood…Flowers, Fence, Dog August 7, 2009

Filed under: First House — nsdeems @ 9:19 pm

Justin went out to “the” house this morning.  It was first thing in the morning - I believe it was around 9:30am.  Last time we went out there there was a lot of dirt, rocks and some wood laying around.   

This is what he saw this morning. 

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We had a foundation!  Which I guess eventually will be covered up with other things and that will be the floor we walk on…run on…roll around on while I throw a temper tantrum…I mean when Andi throws a temper tantrum. 

Justin wanted to ride back out there later in the day. 

This is what we saw.

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We have walls…lots of walls…with holes for windows!  Which one day I will look out of and fondly admire the floating butterflies and birds that are visiting our home.  Ok, that might be a bit romanticized but what the hell…we have walls! 

And get this…the difference between the foundation and the walls was only about 5 hours!  Damn those guys worked hard this morning!  I can’t wait to go back next week…at this pace we may already have flowers, a fence and dog in the back yard!

 

Signed, Sealed…To Be Delivered July 17, 2009

Filed under: First House — nsdeems @ 2:28 am

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Words were said, some of which I honestly didn’t understand, options were decided on, colors were picked out and a contract was signed.  There were a lot of words in it, a lot of phrases which I’m sure I’ll only see again when we buy another house, and initials and signatures finalized the evening.  The picture above is the land that our to-be home will one day sit on.  Actually, we were told that in the next 2 weeks that our foundation will be sitting there, which I have been told is the best way to start such process.  Our agent called us today to say that the builder accepted the contract with all of our options and price, so now we have to finalize financing with the bank and then we’ll just be waiting, ever so patiently (yeah right!) for our home to be built.  As this being our first home purchase, I’ve never realized the significance that just a few pieces of signed paper can make in the lives of an ordinary couple but today was deemed “Happy Homeowners Day” which I know the builder technically still owns…which I know doesn’t even exist yet.  Still, it was another step towards adulthood and family…all things that need a home as it’s foundation!

 

The House Haunted July 13, 2009

Filed under: First House — nsdeems @ 3:17 am

About 2 months ago Justin and I decided to start seriously thinking about buying a house.  We outgrew out apartment a long time ago and although we have thoroughly enjoyed our time living downtown and in the apartment, it is time for us to spread our wings and our belongings into a larger space! 

So we started browsing at houses for sale…we became obsessed with home buying lingo, square footage and the idea of moving.  I’ve pictured us living in several homes, picked out paint colors…my dreams are haunting visions of me finding strange things in secret closets.  We have looked at several homes; this is a summary of how we spent this afternoon. 

We met our realtor, Tara, at a home.

DSC07182This is Justin, Andi and Tara (she’s hiding behind the car door as I don’t like posting pics of random people without their knowing) taking about the first home we saw today. 

DSC07181This is the outside.  Obviously.  It was an older home, had a weird floor plan and only 1 1/2 baths.  Plus check out this kitchen…

DSC07178How old is that oven?  I couldn’t tell you but it made me laugh.  I’m no gourmet chef but I do my fair share of kitchen duty and this just wouldn’t do for very long. 

Cute house and if we had money for restoring it would probably be a great buy…but not for us. 

 

 

 

So we went to check out another home…

DSC07185This is the outside of the nice blue home.  Obviously.  It was large…4 bedrooms and 3 baths.  But it has an upstairs, which I’m not fond of, and it would need a lot of cosmetic work.  I know the cosmetic stuff is easy but I just am not up for it.  Really I’m not up for the weeks worth of cleaning that it would take to let me feel comfortable living in there, but that’s just me being honest. 

DSC07186Andi really liked the back yard though.  She thought the slight incline of the sidewalk on the side of the house was a slide and attempted to scoot her butt down.  I know…poor kid doesn’t have a yard of her own and doesn’t know how to act.  I’m horrible.

 

 

 

 

 

So after seeing these two homes and comparing them to several others that we had already seen, we decided to drive back to a neighborhood of new construction in which we’ve really been thinking more and more of.  We talked about it and both Justin and I were favoring the idea of moving into a brand new home, not having to work on or fix anything, getting to pick out colors and options from the start.  We had looked at another home of the same floor plan a little over a week ago and the more we thought about it the more we knew that this was the best option for us.  The neighborhood is great and has great features and the home is perfect for our family of 3. 

DSC07187This is the home that we thought would be ours.  I know it’s missing a few things but that’s only because it’s not finished yet!  Duh!!??  As we drove up I said, “hi house!”  I really thought this would be it. 

DSC07189This is A-Bear looking out one of the windows during us walking through the not yet secured home.  I told her to imagine this being mommy and daddy’s room.

My dreams of us living on this lovely street were dashed as we stopped by the model home and they told us someone had signed a contract on the house 4 days ago!  But wait, they are building the same floor plan a few streets down and it can be ours!  Yippy!  So we signed up…well, not really.  We are scheduled to come back on Wednesday with our realtor and do our contract…then we’ll have signed up!  So between now and then my mind is racing with thoughts of how I will put our furniture and decorate and what color cabinets and curtains I will have.  I know that is such a girly thing but can you blame me?  Updates to come…

 

 
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